HI Heidi,
I'll go have a look at PB in a minute but I'm so sorry to hear that the clinic nurse treated you badly. Some of them just have no idea, forget what it was like to have young babies or have never had kids themselves. As if you weren't feeling bad as it is.
As for us, the ear perforation did nothing to help her nor did the side car idea. Sadly, last night I gave her heavy sedation and that helped her to sleep for three hours -
11pm - 3am.
I'm so sorry that you are having a rough time. I feel for you, I really do. Ok. I'm off to have a look at your post in Punching Bag.