I hear ya!

ETA whenever I say "she should be blah blah" to my husband, he always responds "who says? She hasn't read that book"...
Same here! That's what my DH says to me hehe and that makes me feel better! it's true!

Yeah lately I've just been getting DD up if she wakes after 30mins or more I don't bother trying to re-settle especially if she's wide awake and smiling at me all playfully! If i try to resettle her she just gets cranky at me so no point!!!
She will usually have two or three day naps of about 40mins long.... sometimes less sometimes more.