Just reading this thread again. I think I need more of a routine at home. We have the same times for meals and sleeps every day but I think I need more routine for what we do in between otherwise it's hard for me to stay motivated! But we do spend the majority of our days at home. We only go to swimming once a week and ABA and then occasionally I'll meet up with a friend for a play if they have kids or just morning tea or something if they don't. I am a big believer in not having lots of scheduled activities for kids outside the home. I think DD can learn a lot more from free play outside. I think she's really benefited from being home a lot so far in that she's never bored, she's awesome at entertaining herself and has a fabulous imagination.