I'm not sure if this helps, but we are planning on keeping DS in day care for one day, and then one day with MIL and one day with my mum - just like he does at the moment so it keeps him in the same routine, so he sees that having a baby doesn't really change his life too much!!!!!! Thats the plan anyway... plus, it will give me one on one time with the new bub.. Good luck!!!!!