Ooh, let me just say I don't think my DH is more painful! He was a wonderful help when DS2 was born and he took care of DS1 the whole time. It was just that DS1 wasn't used to having his daddy at home (that in itself was a change of routine) and DH didn't handle him the same way as I would have because he doesn't normally spend all day every day with him. Just wanted to say I wasn't having a dig at my DH in the slightest! I don't know what I'd do without him