I am having a baby shower in a month and i cant wait. My baby shower will be with both males and females, it will jsut be one big get together to have a bbq and a good time. I think it is great to catch up with all your mates before bubs arrives i am not expecting gifts but i know that alot of my friends cant help themselves just like me I lvoe going to baby showers and i love being able to buy a small gift for the mummy to be i know i am not expected to buy anything but who can help themselves hehehehe i say go for it and have a lovely day enjoy the attention that will be on you because when bub arrives all eyes are going to be on him/her