Kaz - She usually wakes up at about 1am - ill look into that book also thank you

Mumma Mia - thats the other problem DH gets up at 5 to go to work - so its like im trying to keep the whole house from being woken up.. im fighting a few different battles..

during the day she goes in our room for her nap... and it work well but its the night time we havnt got sussed yet...

But as Kaz said she may just still need a bottle and prolly becuase my boy didnt - he was great slept well, no stranger anziety, not clingy but my little DD..........You see I know now better than what i have experienced with him...

I usually stay on the lounge until she wakes up so i dont wake DH up getting up and down aswell...