Thanks Leasha I appreciate your post - like i said i think ive been ruined by my extra good baby to not know that this is normal for her......

I guess i need to learn to deal with it - i found that helped after i havd my 1st - after suffering for the first 2 weeks i was like "well he needs to be fed just get up and do it" and i was alot better - maybe i need to just try accept this is how she is and not try change her just yet. and Yep shes teething too.... DS got all his young no problems - shes not doing as well as he did either in that department...

amazes me how different they can be straight off the bat with no life experience iykwim...

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