Thanks Curly for the support and understanding. Nice to know I'm not the only one. lol

MBear - When I pop her in her cot for a day sleep she cracks a tanty and just yells, howls, screams, squeals and everything in between but without tears or really working herself up. She sleeps from 7pm until at least 5am so 10 hours per day if not until 6am. I'm definately going to try something 'sleep' related like a snuggly or teddy. A GP told me to give her a dummy again (spat it out when she was 6months and never wanted it again) which i think is more regressing than anything. So a snuggly I am more than fine with. Especially seeing as my 28 year old DH still has a special pillowcase that he needs to sleep with. He'll actually take his pillow if we go anywhere or when we went overseas for our honeymoon, he just brought the pillowcase.

ausgirl - any advice on how to get her to sleep then? what tricks do you guys use?

Rayray - She has a rest period where she sits on the couch with her bottle of moo milk and watches tv for a bit. Thats her downtime...so as long as she gets that I'm happy I guess.

Thanks for all your help