Hi, my 10 1/2 month old is not a great sleeper but has now dropped one day nap so is only doing 1 day nap for 1-1 1/2 hours only! She co sleeps with me at night and still also wakes for b/feeds during the night to re-settle. Am I missing her 'tired' signs?? She is full on walking and acts as though she has too much to do to bother sleeping....even though I can see she's tired; bags under eyes, yawning and sometimes rubbing eyes, she just refuses to settle most of the time. I put music on for her day naps in her cot and have always done that so she's used to it.

I phoned up a sleep school and booked in for a day course and the nurse had me feeling like I'm doing everything wrong. Had me feeling like I'm doing the wrong thing by her, that I'm missing signals etc. I am going to go I think for any tips but am feeling crap now!! Any ideas out there???