Ignore her!! My DS is nearly 10 months old and still does not self settle to sleep, he BF to sleep and is then transfered to cot asleep.

During day he will not transfer to cot her will BF and sleep on my knee or in pram if we are out.

Routine wise we are only now starting to see a pattern to the day and thats only because we have solids to fit in also. We still demand BF

Go with the flow, demand BF, co sleep wear in sling and enjoy your bubba.