No more co-sleeping!

[Cherished]

As I suggested can you sit up in bed to feed? And keep her feeding by a gentle rock when she starts to slow down/drift off? You can even tickle her feet or squeeze your breast to put some milk in her mouth to keep her sucking. That way she will get a bigger feed in an hopefully leave you alone for a bit longer. How long does a good feed usually take? my DS is 5 months and it takes him 10 minutes all up and that's having both boobs maybe I'm lucky that his feeds have always taken him 10 minutes.

Hang on a minute, maybe I'm totally out of line here. Your post isn't about finding ways to keep co-sleeping it's a statement that you are no longer doing it I must have presumed that you are co-sleeping because you wanted to and enjoyed it but I must be wrong... sorry

[zrieka]

Hang on a minute, maybe I'm totally out of line here. Your post isn't about finding ways to keep co-sleeping it's a statement that you are no longer doing it I must have presumed that you are co-sleeping because you wanted to and enjoyed it but I must be wrong... sorry

Hi Cherished1

I don't mind co-sleeping. At first I worried a lot about squashing DD, but now she is a little bigger ad more mobile now and its less of a concern. I just hate getting kicked awake for another feed and I think it makes me a bit lazy about making sure she gets a proper feed. (I don't think all co-sleepers are lazy!!). Its really more my partner. He is such a light sleeper that DD keeps him awake with every kick and grunt.

I think you are lucky that your DS takes 10 mins for a good feed. Mine can be anything from 3 mins to half an hour. Sometimes she will fall asleep as soon as she feels the boob, and then kick me again after half an hour because she didn't actually get any! She is also at a stage of thinking every feed could be her last and getting frantic when she knows I am there but boob isn't ready on time.

I think I am just having a rant because DD doesn't have regular sleep patterns at all. During the day she might sleep for an hour or for 5 minutes every hour. I feel like the co-sleeping has taken away my only vaguely predictable sleep. waaaaaaah!