Mez, I am still just going with the flow with my DD.Lately every day has been different, but she's teething pretty badly these past few weeks and her sleeping and eating has been terrible some days. Before that though she had a 'flow' to the day which I could generally predict what would happen and when she would sleep etc. I am not worried about a routine, it will happen when she's ready and not before tha. I don't think there is any use stressing over putting her into a routine because then both she and I are both stressed and unhappy. I usually aim put DD to bed by no later than 8.30 and no earlier than 7 at night and that is the only routine part of our day. I don't let her sleep after 5pm and if she goes to sleep at 4.30 or so I don't let her sleep for more than 45mins. Those are our only rules!

HTH! Goodluck