I don't have any advice. But thought id give you a hug. I'm sure someone will have some tricks. All these different stages can be sooo difficult, until you know how to fix them. Good luck.

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thank you

My dd went off the cot at 21 months after being sick with gastro and sleeping on a matress on the floor with me.

We bought a king single and a bed rail. Never had major problems and it's big enough for me to lay on the bed too if she is unsettled.
If she was unsettled I would lay with her til she was asleep and I would then sneak out. Sometimes it was a few times a night.

She is now 2 years 4 months and I took the bed rail off last week.
there is hope yet!

My only suggestion would be what you have already said you are going to do. DD2 suddenly hated her cot and would not settle in in and was waking about 20 times a night. I changed it to the toddler bed, got her brand new sheets and she was excited and happy and now only wakes a few times but is super easy to settle because I can get to her level and cuddle her.

The other problem though is getting her into her room by the sounds of it. Could you change her room around abit. Sometimes the change is enough excitement for them to be happy in there again.

I hope you get a solution soon
mum has bought her new sheets and big girl bed stuff for when we move her so she is going to bring it down this weekend, and i will rearrange tonight before bed and see if that helps too..