I was just wondering if anyone knew of any good books on dealing with toddlers,i here so much conflicting advice and dont know what to do,I really dont want to have a horrible child that noone wants around but im unsure of the whole smacking and discipline at this age as DD is only 15 months.I dont know how much they undertsand and if alot of its normal etc.She seems quite the easy going child really but theres times mainly when we are out where she really tests me,its like she knows the boundaries at home and so shes ok but soon as we go out noway!She wants out of the stroller or car or shopping trolley and she will just keep carrying on!I dont know whether to just ignnore it or what?I feel the terrible twos have starte already!Any advice and is this a normal phase?Or do i have a dreaded horror?in angel clothing?