OH, whilst staying off topic, I didnt read that as an attitude thing, more like providing facts. One poster provided information a doctor gave her sister which is factually incorrect. Other posters added other facts to consider. People might not like facts, but it doesnt make those facts incorrect or assign a value to those facts.

Just as not smoking whilst pregnant is better than smoking, reducing smoking whilst pregnant (or anytime) is better than not reducing smoking. There are resources available to help with that. Quitline is one.

I dont want to sound mean but feeling guilty or otherwise is an individual choice. Not easy to deal with, but still a choice. We all have things we feel guilty about. I can relate to sometimes feeling like something is shoved in your face, but that's because of how I judge myself. For some, that may be about smoking, for me it's other things.

Back on topic, I imagine this is currently the last thing on BAL's mind at the moment. Sending strength and hoping Jett is doing well.