Now that DF and I are living together and I am not working I am really starting to notice how much he spends on smokes. It's never bothered me before but maybe because he isn't working much and we are broke it's driving me nuts. I feel like I will miss out on things or sacrifice things to try and save $$ yet he thinks nothing of buying a pack a day.. Also when we have previously lived together I have been a smoker too except for when I was pregnant, but even then I used to buy cheap smokes and he always buys his winfield which are expensive. I know he wont give up and everytime I say something about $ he just says we'll be right.. Cigarettes are a necessity for him so he doesn't get how frustrated I am!!!!

How do others cope when their partner smokes and they don't??