I don't spend any money without checking it with DH first - he is in charge of the finances, he knows how much we have and which bank account its in etc. So I've always automatically checked things with him first.

We're waiting on a cheque to clear, and I've gotta ring some people once it does, so I just went in and checked our account. And I found that he's been buying credits for Street Racer on Facebook - I didn't know anything about it!

Would this bother you? I mean, i've never said he has to check things with me, or vice versa, but we just always have - and he's asked me to wait on buying a couple of things until the cheque clears, while meantime he's buying credits for a GAME!

How would you feel?