with your bills you can call them, explain that times are tough, and request a payment plan? i had a huge water bill that i couldnt pay, and they gave me a payment plan of about 30$ every 2 weeks, wich cover current use and a bit towards the debt. same is happening with my power and gas, tho the payments will be redused soon as im almost out of the debt with them.
also you could try find crisis relife in your area like st vinnies, salvation army or the local community house? there are places that can help, you just need to know were to look and not be afraid to ask.

hth.