oh hun

i went through something similar when i left my ex... both obiles were in my name, i didnt want to be slack and leave him stranded so left his phone connected

BIG mistake, a hole (creative spelling justified here) racked up $2,300 worth of calls by the time i got my next bill

there was nothing i could do, it was in my name, i was liable, couldnt even take him to court. lesson learned there!

but as for the electricity, try lifeline, the salvos, just see if they can help, at all.... not sure, but you could even see if department of housing could help out, i think they might, if you are on a waiting list?

it does get easier hun, it does take time though, and once it is sorted out youwill feel the calm. fresh air again