Where is this coming from? Who is saying that there is no problem / pretending there is no problem? Who said anything about destroying the current one?

If you are speaking about people like myself who didn't have a problem with their treatment, I'd plead that just because I am happy and got out without being violated, doesn't mean I have failed to see that others haven't been so "lucky". I am not blind. I am also not without empathy for those who have been violated. Surely we can discuss our own personal observations without anyone reading into it a more general conclusion.

If you aren't speaking about people like myself, who are you talking about? Who is holding the opposing opinion here? I'm just a bit baffled about who the opposition (for lack of a better word) is in this discussion.
I was wondering the same. Thought I missed something.