Thats a good point. So many women wonder what the hell happened at their birth, feel disappointed and more women are getting post traumatic stress disorder and PND after birth... we need to start taking more responsibility for ourselves and our decisions, we research so many other things when we are making a purchase, why isn't birth as important?

There is a BB poll, where I asked how you choose your Ob, the #1 response was word of mouth. I notice that alot, people will ask around who they had and pick them. Along with the "My ob was brilliant, he saved my baby when it was an emergency!" -- well what created the emergency in the first place? Alot of babies are born in 'emergencies' these days. We know that simply having a doula at your birth reduces c/s by 50% based on many studies around the world, they all match up, that's gotta be saying something, thats massive - and its NOT a reduction from having medical care... hmmmmm....