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  1. #1
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    Sep 2004
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    I don't want to repeat my post from page 8 but suffice to say, I'm still amazed that women think asking hospitals to make known their black and white STATISTICS known is somehow an attack on a woman's birth choice. At what point did this particular thread start becoming about people thinking that by wanting to know these statistics, that somehow it means that people are judging you?

    I honestly don't care how you decide to have your baby. My concern has never been about the women who knowingly choose to have a c/s, whether they medically need it or not. Your body, your choice. The women I AM speaking about are the women who were scared or coerced into thinking they HAD to have a c/s. Can anyone else see the difference, or are some of the posts that said just that (including mine on page 8) somehow invisible to some of the posters here?

    And to say that you think it's better to make a complaint after the fact instead of informing yourself before you actually get to that point is completely mind-boggling.

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    Dec 2005
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    I think many of the 'new' posters and members to BB who have come in here have to remember that Belly belly is a gentle parenting forum that supports vaginal and natural births, including VBACS. Maybe instead of repremanding those of us who are voicing for many silient woman suffering...you should go and have a look in the c/s birthing thread and the debreifing thread at the amount of woman who end up having c/s's and feel dreadful afterwards. Ha dyou thought that maybe having known the statisic might have helped with their choices at the time?

    The reason for the article is to help woman see the bigger picture.
    Take your dame rose coloured glasses off and think of others.

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    I agree Sushee, I can see the difference, my post before was personal, however thinking about it now about the general public, the more education and information the better. I think that the information should be available for women should they choose to research births and their choices before the birth so they are aware of all posibilities and not get pushed into something they dont want to happen.

    Totally agree too MAZ

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    Yup at the end of the day, those who dont want to know wont care and it doesnt matter. But those who do want to know and see it is a very important piece of information towards having a normal and natural birth as possible, we miss out. It should be available for those who want it, those who do can miss out. I think the information will be presented professionally and media hype blows everything out of context.

    So funny, those who dont care think there is choice. You can choose vaginal birth or c/s.... stats dont matter... but those who do care know there is a hell of alot more to it than that. There is NO choice in many regards, its not fair, its not equal, very lobsided and those who dont care wont care.
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    So true!

    I just wish there were more birthing centres like the one I attended with my first birth (and will attend again in April!).

    Its in a hospital but has no OBs or docs at all - only midwives. Its completely independent. They provide fantastic care and a brilliant education (their pre-natal classes are AMAZING and opened up my eyes to so many things), and they are pro-choice without shoving anything in your face!

    I'm not sure if i'm allowed to say who they are - but if you live in Newcastle or surrounds - look up the Belmont Birthing Centre. I cant recommend them enough!!!

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    Belmont is BRILLIANT! Carolyn Hastie manages it, and she's awesome
    Kelly xx

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    Aug 2008
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    Belmont is BRILLIANT! Carolyn Hastie manages it, and she's awesome
    I know - Caroline is amazing! I birthed my son with Elise & Debbie and that was incredible (although not strictly 'by the book'! lol) and this time Kim is my midwife, tho who knows who i'll end up with on the day!!