RH,

By the sounds of it, I personally think there were a lot of people who failed YOU. I don't think you failed. One person can only fight so much. And when there is that much opposition, so little support and so much control taken away from you at a time when you're in pain, vulnerable and scared, I don't think ANYONE should be thinking, let alone saying, you'd failed.

I don't think birthing the best way you could despite the odds is failing at all.

But that conversation is for another thread.