mum2bee; I know what you mean but as uncomfortable and lousy as I felt during my pregnancy I wouldn't want to miss that time for anything. I see the pregnancy as a very special bonding period between Mother and baby and to miss all that would be a bit upsetting for me.

Still haven't heard a name yet but she has a full head of hair!

I have thought of calling the local news but don't feel its my decision, I think she's still in shock, I am waiting to get the okay to come and visit as my partner and I won't believe it till we actually see her with a baby!