makon was 22 months and he was at the birth( i wanted him in the room but it happened very quickly) he came in just as i was pulling her out of the water.
my MIl was his support person so she ot him breakfast and went for a walk with him!
he would come up to me and say 'mummy ok?' and i always said yes mummy is just making noises to get baby out!
we did a little bit of build up before the birth! i thjink that is why there is no rivallry/jealousy cos he was there! i didnt go away and come back with a screaming baby!