Kaz - I would have to say definately.

I had a VERY long labour and forcep delivery, for which the epidural wasn't working. I felt very much like you and was really anxious about getting pregnant again, purely cause I couldn't go through that experience again.

I made sure I learnt lessons, looked into all of my options, and had fantastic support ( aside from DH). I would suggest doing lots of research and think about hiring a support person either a midwife or a Doula.

I am now 31 weeks pregnant with No 3 and can't wait for this labour as I truly enjoyed my 2nd birth, it was amazing and liberating.