I had a full birth plan of what i wanted....however i went into labour (even though the hospital told me i wasnt), my DH's freinds had my labour bag in thier car and went home with it (we didnt think they were going to admit me...so they took all my bags back home with them when they dropped DH and i off).

Turns out i didnt need it in the end. DH knew what i wanted and what i didnt. So if something come up he was able to say yes or no if i wasnt able to answer.

Once i got home i looked back over my plan and everything i had planned went the way i wanted....other then the tearing.... i said id ather be cut then tear....but it was unpreventable in my case as DD come flying out and would have been no time to cut any ways!!