Sounds like a really stressful time for you at the moment. I agree with Alan - talk to your health care provider and see what they have to say. They may have suggestions for dealing with all these issues with things that you haven't thought of. They might even be able to arrange something with a social worker to come and talk to you and see if there are more options.

I really hope you get some peace with it all and can find a solution that you are comfortable with