My MW said that women who get a lot of stretchmarks are at more risk of tearing, do not how much of the truth is in that but she would see more than I
Doh, I was going to try and avoid tearing when I go for #3 after being 2 for 2 but if thats true i'm buggered.

In saying that from my perspective, yes I tear, but I also heal quickly.

I do agree it's one of those things were you can prepare as much as you like but it may still happen, doesn't hurt to prevent, but don't be too hard on yourself if you still tear.

From my own experience though if you do tear, minimum of 2 showers a day, gentle drying - ultra thin pad while you dry the rest of yourself can help, and only drink water, even the slightest acidity comes out your wee and ouch!