My 4th was the most beautiful and seriously wonderful birth imaginable! So relaxed and stressfree- and that was after partial placental abruption with DD1 and 1 1/2hr labor with DD2! I had the least amount of bleeding also and can say In all honesty that straight after birthing (apart from some afterbirth pains) I seriously wouldn't have been able to tell I'd just had a baby! like its always said every birth is different so don't let anyone scare you into anything especially without really good reason. Case in point an OB (mine was away) tried to scare me into c-sect with DD1 but I'd learnt enough about the condition to be able to say no (for my specific circumstance) and ended up holding out for nearly 3days & birthing completely naturally with no further complications & a 100% healthy littlegirl!
So in short my advice is educate yourself on the possible risks and trust your body