I would prefer a smaller baby than DS, or at least not a bigger one.

Both my kids same parents, similar diet (nor perfect but pretty good), same gestation (41 weeks) but DS was an extra 1.3kg. They are different body shapes, but since birth to 1.5 years both then travelled down the growth charts to average or smaller sizes.

I put on a heap of weight during pregnancy, lots of fluid which i lose in the first month pp and then extra that drops off around 9 months pp. This is another area i'd like to see if i can do something about.