My sister had 2 vaginal births and 1 c/s (elective but her ob convinced her she had to have it because her pelvis was too small, despite having birthed from that same pelvis twice previously). She told me recently the worst thing she ever did was agree to the c/s. She too has no feeling in her scar, and she hates how her tummy looks now.

Good on you Maz for bringing the reality into focus a little with regards to c/s being major abdonimnal surgery.