Thanks girls...I just needed some sense talked into me! I could feel this fear taking root, IYKWIM.

Arimeh, not worried about KS being pro caesarean...I know someone who was recently in labour for over 40 hours and was totally fed up and told KS to "cut this effing thing out of me" and KS talked her down and she went on to deliver the baby vaginally.

Maybe I am just more accepting of birthing a big baby than the average bear...I'd taken it as a given from the moment I got the BFP (not to mention my excellent BB education)...and I've taken KS' gentle suggestions of me probably having another big baby to mean that I'm going to have some 5kg giant!