I have had 4 c/s - 2 emergancy c/s and 2 planned. with my 2nd pg I wanted a VBAC but as I went into early labour (it was stopped) at 34 weeks - I had to have a planned c/s due to my scar being torn internally from contractions. I had a nice black bruise across my scar for well over a year due to this.
I get really peaved at this mummies who are to posh to push as it gives us mummies who really cant do the ah la natural birth (and we really want to) and have to have a c/s a bad rep.

YEs, its great to know the facts but I get so sick and tired of hearing all the negetives about a c/s and statistics along with it. We dont hear the bad things about natural child birth.

I think people need to tread carefully on this subject as yes, It is very hurtfull to continually hear that c/s's are terrible and without realising it, people can often make us feel like second class citizens

Apologise to anyone I may peeve off about my post - and for not keeping my mouth in my draw PMSL