Good for you Astrid for making a fantastic and wonderful decission for yourself and your baby. I hope your both your sakes that you get exactly the birth you deserve and crave. Im sure there are many c/s mum's out there that are cheering you on.
Have you got a doula for this birth so you get what you want and can chat to the ob..as I know Kelly is a wonderful Doula (have heard many wonderful things) and she acts for the mum to be...so when ob's run on auto pilot and when you cant 'think' due to being in the pains of labour, the doula can be your voice
Now have to ask also - as you are not aloud to be induced...whats your birth plan then if you do not go into natural labour?
No doula, but a student midwife, there are no doulas down here. There is a private midwife I can call, so I might see what she offers. The ob clinic is very aware of my wishes, all of them have been told what I went through last time and what I want this time. Initially I was feeling very overlooked, but a quick phone call to complain got all that sorted, admittedly with tears, but that couldn't be helped. It is written on the top of my file and highlighted "All intervention is to be discussed"

No induction allowed, but I have pushed them out from want to book a c-section at 41 weeks, to lets wait and see how things are at 41 weeks. The wont allow me to go past 42 and I am ok with that. They understand I want the chance to get things going naturally (acupuncture etc).