okay people, TMI ahead, but for those curious enough...
I did try to check...
and boy it was hard to reach (despite having long fingers and being really bendy) - the cervix is sooooooooo high up in pregnancy!
My cervix is really soft and I am somewhat dilated (one finger at least - couldn't physically try for more).

for all those going eeeeeeeeeew: wait til you are close to your EDD - you do get desperate for good news