It is very confusing I agree! My client with GD through the birth centre would get one Ob saying I wont let you go past your due date, one saying you can go a week over and another who was a 'wait and see' doctor. So you are at the mercy of the Ob's opinions which is why I believe in the provision of info so if you do want to suss out which is best for you, it is here. If you want to take Obs advice then that is fine too - if they want to they will. But with BB, the info I choose to place on the main site will be the side you may not be told - and that's okay - because I also know other sites will have that info that others are seeking too. So you can have the luxury of comparing sites and info and what works with you, is what you can do. We are lucky to have this place called the internet to share info - imagine what it would be like without it! I would not know as much as I do now that is for sure