One of my girlfriends is having an elective c and people can not stop judging her and it is none of their business!

She was in a bad accident about 18 months ago injuring her back severely and when she first met her OB it is what he suggested.

What I think is upsetting is that women feel a need to justify their decision to have an elective c - size, complications etc. One of my other girlfriends had an elective c because she did not want to go through a vaginal birth and that is her choice.

Princess I am so sorry that people are judging you It is really not their place to comment but they will anyway. You know why you have made the decision and that is all that matters