I had a vacuum with DD (she was posterior and badly stuck so had to be turned first) but an episiotomy wasn't necessary at all. I only had a small graze, one stitch and that was it.

I personally think our genes play a big role in how stretchy our skin is. I also think the position(s) we birth in plays a huge part too. From all my friends who have had babies, only one has had an episiotomy Sometimes it just has to be done though

Hopefully there won't be any need for you to have another one this time round. I'd certainly be reading up on labour and birthing positions instead of worrying with an EpiNo

Fingers are crossed for you!