I have been thinking about this a lot recently actually.

My biggest fear is that a second birth will not be as rosy as the first.

With Olivia I was really lucky: quick labour, all natural, no rips, and of course an utterly gorgoeus end result.

My fear is that I had it "too easy" fist time round, and that I may have a totally different experience second time round and that I will be "too complacent"? KWIM?

Also, if we concieve THIS month I may be able to con DH into staying up in Darwin until after the birth (June?) (where I LOVE my OB and the DPH is lovely) but if our attempts for # 2 go much beyond November I will be moving back to Adelaide mid pregnancy.......which will be awful.......so I am scared of that as well.............