Would you consider employing an independent male midwife?
Yes I would consider a male midwife the same as a female midwife. A choice would not be made on their sex/age/anything else, but how they suited me and my birthing needs.

Would you prefer a female midwife?
Initially and honestly I would probably say yes, but initial impression and final decision are two very different things, and I really don't think male or femaleness would affect my end decision. For example when trying out new doctors in new towns, I initially visit female doctors, but almost always end up choosing a male doctor as our family doctor....just one of my personal biases.

What would influence your choice?
How the midwife could meet my needs; how we related to each other; similarities in life philosophies; competency; employment history; location; post-birth care

Any other comments would also be appreciated.
I HTH...I'm not around much so haven't got to know you at all......but I think its fantastic that you are considereing private midwifery and I wish you all the best in finding your way in this new career path!