The fact that you asked means you're on track in my books.

I just wanted DH to be there. To be my logic, strength & voice when I need to concentrate on other more important matters.

Physically he attended some pre-natal classes (eg. Calmbirth) with me & learnt various methods of supporting (light massages, rocking, etc) to help when needed. He also learnt abt the different stages of labour etc so he knew roughly where I was at. We had discussed abt when the going gets really tough & if I want to give up, he needs to reassure me with specific examples so I know I can do it.

When it comes closer to the time, help ensure she's all relaxed & ready to go. Sounds simple but little things matter. I dunno why. Maybe just my OCD tendencies.

Other stuff that I can think of:
- organise & take her to a baby moon (if u can)
- if ure homebirthing, there's another list I'm sure

Like I said the fact that you asked means ure on your way there.

have a great journey!!


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