lots of great ideas from everyone else! I just wanted to add that if your DW is planning on breastfeeding it might be worth finding and attending an ABA class together before bub arrives - breastfeeding can take time (and sometimes a lot of tears and frustration) to establish and an informed, supportive partner can make a huge difference to establishing breastfeeding

I'm in Melbourne and recently had my first bub - my DH found Di Diddle's antenatal classes really useful. He was a wonderful support to me during labour

All the best!!