Holly - you are fully entitled to have a whinge - and believe me, I know exactly where you are coming from.

At the moment I'm having to deal with telephone calls from my mum, and she puts in things like "oh when you have the baby at the hospital" (no, I'm going to a birth centre) "oh, you'll be out of action for a while after the csection" (um no, I'm getting a VBAC this time round)

So try not to pay too much attention to it, and focus on just you and your bub. Thats what matters.