pffftt to your sister - clearly she has NO Fn idea about C-secs. I just wish there was a way for you to get her to look into it. I have a copy of Silent Knife and seriously when the book talks about the way the surgery is actually performed all I could do was cry that I went through that.

C-Secs are not an easy option they are a major surgery and should not be gone into lightly for those considering elective, while I am pro choice, I really think that kind of surgery should be left for emergency or medically necessary situations.

Good on you for trying for a VBAC, if you wanted to retaliate to your sister you could always say back "if its so easy why don't you have one?!!"

Sorry but she sounds like she needs a whack in the back of the head to knock some sense into her.

Nae x