I'm in the same boat as Hollo and am also curious to know/hear some answers on this. My situation is a bit different again, but I guess comes down to a similar thing in the end. I had a vaginal birth and tore naturally with my DS, but it didn't heal properly and caused some scar tissue which I had to have a procedure for and my OB cut it and restitched the area (had that done in February 2011). It is still painful with DTD, although not as bad, but I'm also wondering how another birth would go with everything... I would choose to tear natually again and would do anything in my power to have a natural, vaginal birth again.

Good luck to everyone!