my first was awful-10 days late, very hard and fast labour, and an episiotomy that has a few stitches tear and get infected. But after a while, i forgot about it, and fell preggars with #2. The pain came rushing back back with the first contraction, but the birth wasnt too hard. I was so afraid of tearing my episiotomy scar i tried to push my bub back in as he crowned. But you do forget about these things, thought the easier the labour and delivery, the easier you forget!