My son was induced at 10 days over, and i still feel I was forced in to it.

This time around Im going to a different hospital and have a different care provider. when Itold her i was induced at 10 days post dates she asked me 'why so early? Was there a placenta or fluid problem' When I told her the OB had flatly refused to check either she was shocked.

My midwife said they will go til 14 days overdue, and then look at induction options. They can do placental and fluid leve monitoring in the meantime as well.
She told me there is no difference in the risk of birthing at 38 weeks compared to 42 weeks.