It is, I agree. I have had 4 AROMs, which is done during a contxn so that the membranes are bulging and the babies head is pressed down to avoid cord prolapse. It is basically an internal during a contraction and it really stings!

But I have had regular internals where she just "waited it out" which was even worse IMO! Could you get your hand out of my personal space while I scream in pain - please! Its entirely possible it was just bad timing on her behalf. I just hate internals all together. They are innacurate and not actually medically necessary 99% of the time, so I am not permitting any this time. Thats going to be fun...

Definitely bring it up with your ob and let him know you would at the very least prefer that VEs are not done during contractions. Thats the least they can do for you!